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In Memory of
Pasquale Thomas Bellantoni
1937 - 2016
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This Book of Memories memorial website allows family and friends a place to re-visit, share and enhance this tribute for future generations.
I had the shear pleasure of growing up 'Bellantoni' through my relationship and marriage to Christopher. Coming from a family without Aunts, Uncles and cousins they introduced me to a whole new world. When Aunt Sally put me on her family tree she asked me to say something. I believe it was something to the following : I have loved you all since the day I have met each of you. The love, the laughter, the trips to each other's houses, the Pool Parties at Uncle Joe's and our famous cousin's trip to my Hampton house, they were all blessings in my life. Perhaps the hardest part of this divorce is losing my in-law family that I adore. I'm sure she turned that into something eloquent. She had a way of doing that. Uncle Pat and Aunt Sally were the only 2 people in our lives that attempted to counsel Chris and I as we separated. He refused to meet with them. His shame I suppose. But they promised me one thing. I would always be a part of their family. They kept that promise. Every year at Christmas, the adorably excited phone call of Annette being in labor, my birthday, the loss of my parents, just to name a few. I was broken hearted when Aunt Sally passed. I have maintained my relationships with members of my family through Facebook. Losing Uncle Pat is terribly sad. The end of a legacy. But I would love to think of it as a marriage reunited. One where they continue to dress up for date night. One where the go dancing. One where their love shines through with laughter to all that got to see it. I'd like to think of them shining down on their beautiful children and grandchildren with pride and guidance. And I'd like to think of them as my newest angels. Uncle Pat you are sorely missed. But with your strong faith, I know you ave been welcomed Home to Heaven where you belong. Forever in my heart, I'll always love you. Little Karen
To steal a quote from Helen Keller - "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched, but are felt in the heart".
Pat had such a large heart that he fit us all, family members and friends, into special compartments and when he saw you he presented that special smile which said welcome and I love you.
On the heart of every person he touched, he left an indelible stamp that blesses us for all our days and will cause us to remember Pat forever.
God bless him!
